Last Updated on October 28, 2022 by Lorna Barrow


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The exit interview…you have heard of it, haven’t you?


You haven’t? lucky you! But it is that interview that businesses, mostly big and some small, usually want to conduct after your employee resigns from your “fabulous” job.


It is also one of the accepted business practices that I’ve always had problems with. Not because I want to be difficult or because I have a history of leaving many jobs.


But because my rather simple mind, with its propensity for child-like logic cannot grasp the purpose of the exit interview.


However, just because I don’t get it and I have also thought of an alternative does not mean that it will go away. As a matter of fact, increasingly, my small business clients have been asking me about this “exit interview”.


Well, let me tell you, many of the exit interview templates I’ve had the opportunity to review are either not very well-designed or could be costly to conduct.


Here are 2 examples of what I’m talking about.


Example #1 – poorly designed exit interview questionnaire

Recently, I looked at a questionnaire for an exit interview and noticed that one of the options that the respondents could tick for a reason for exit was “dismissal”. I really had to laugh out loud.


You would have to be a member of the World-wide Association of Idiots for some employer to dismiss you and then you turn around and allow them to engage you in an exit interview.


This questionnaire was meant to be completed by departing employees and “handed-in” before they leave. Wuhloss!


Example #2 – potentially costly exit interview approach

Then I saw the “profound” suggestion by an HR Author that right at the time of resignation was not the best time to conduct an exit interview. She argued that a better approach would be to wait for as much as up to three weeks to conduct this interview.


Say what!? Let’s unpack this suggestion.


You resign from a job in Barbados in the Caribbean to take up a job in  Switzerland in Europe. This is a distance of over 7,500 kilometres.  In addition to all the settling in issues, both in your new job and in a new home, you’re also dealing with a language difference as well.


And someone from your old job calls you up to find out why you left that job? Really?


Consider this alternative to the Exit Interview…

By now, especially if you’re a Small Business Owner, you should be wondering…what could be better than the exit interview? Or what could possibly replace the popular but useless exit interview?


I’ve always thought that a “why do you stay?” interview would be far more valuable that an exit interview, especially if your business is small.


Depending on the size of the business and the rate of turnover, you could conduct one every 18 months to 3 years.


Since they are not very popular, I decided to conduct a few and share the findings with you.  but before I do, a word about the methodology.


The businesses were all small and covered several industries. I resisted the temptation to survey some self-employed persons, only because I know it would skew the data.


The methodology for my special interview

The questionnaire was simple. The first question was “how long have you been working here?”


If the answer fell anywhere between 18 months and 3 years the second and final question was “why do you continue to work here?”


As to be expected I will not be mentioning names of businesses or respondents, but I assure you the answers are real.


Some responses from my interviewing process 

Let me remind you that the question was, “why do you continue to work here?”


The answers were amusing and instructive:


First Answer: (3 respondents from 3 businesses) Waaaaiit! Who send you? I still working here because my boss can’t afford the severance pay!


Second Answer: (2 respondents from same business) This job is in town (the city) and I only have to pay one bus fare.


Third Answer: (6 respondents from 4 businesses) I like it here. My boss is cool…she does not breathe down my neck and I get to be creative. Also she shares info about the business.


Fourth Answer: (4 respondents from 3 businesses) The pay ain’t good but the boss ain’t bad.


Fifth Answer: (3 respondents from same business) Mrs X is a good boss…she pays overtime willingly , she brings us gifts when she goes away and you can bring the children to work if you can’t find a sitter.


Sixth Answer: (3 respondents from same business) Mr X ain’t got a clue about running this business but he’s such a good person!


Seventh Answer: (1 respondents from 1 business) I wonder…I’ve been trying to find a better job for years!


Eighth Answer: (1 respondent from 3 businesses) I get to run this place. If I was working in a bigger business I would not get to do that. My boss respects me a lot and he consults me when he has important decisions to make. And when people work late, he provides transportation.


Ninth Answer: (6 respondents from 6 businesses) I like working here…my boss cool…and s/he pays for training…


What the answers tell you…

Now if I were to plot these answers on a cluster graph, the clustering coefficient would have to be very high for “good treatment from the boss” whether that boss was male or female.


In other words, it would indicate that for the most part, that treating your employees well, training them and allowing them the freedom to be creative goes a long way to help them remain with you.


Wrapping this up in a neat package, your People Management and leadership skills are the key to small business success, especially in getting employees to remain with you.


Why you don’t need the exit interview…

Yeah…I had fun conducting my little, informal interview.


But I already knew from experience that if you can hire the right employees and find ways to keep them, you won’t need to waste time on an exit interview.


This is another example of what makes small businesses so special.


You have the flexibility to hire smart. You can treat you employees well and build a great team. If you do this, you can  leave the exit interview to the big corporations.


Your next “exit interview” steps 

So I’ve laid it all out for you.


I’ve shown you that as a small business, the exit interview is not your best approach to finding out how your employees feel about you and your business.  


So what do you do? It’s simple, really…


Start engaging your employees periodically about your business, while they are still working for you, rather than waiting until they are leaving. When you do, make sure that you don’t block the good ideas that you can get out of the exercise.


Then use the information to do more of what works to keep your employees with you. 


You also have to examine the state of your HR skills and get coaching for yourself as well. Or, you could find yourself a good business mentor. As a good leader, you have to grow yourself as readily as you grow your employees. 


And don’t forget to conduct a “why do you stay?” interview, every now and again… 


The Exit Interview: What is Easily More Helpful Than This?

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Lorna Barrow

Lorna Barrow is a Business Breakthrough Specialist, an unfiltered Transformational Speaker, a Writer, a Coach and a self-confessed Small Business Junkie. She recognises that small businesses are unique and when it comes to helping you and your business make that BIG breakthrough, she's all in for you!

2 thoughts on “The Exit Interview: What is Easily More Helpful Than This?

  • July 12, 2019 at 11:23 am

    A worthwhile, practical approach. Thanks Lorna.

    • July 12, 2019 at 6:25 pm

      Thanks Gregory!

      “Worthwhile” and “practical” are what I strive for!

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